Is this considered ual Harment?

So, I go to karate and my karate instructors are an old lady and her husband, both in their 60s. lately, her husbands being teaching and he's been making so many subtly crude remarks. I dismissed occurences when he hit pool noodles at everyone for blocks( which were targeted at the face) but he hit my . I've been late to cl and each time, he's like, oh- you're talking to you boyfriend? I lost my keys in my car (stupid, i know) and he was like just go to cl and look for them later- we'll help you and I was like, it's getting dark, i really need to find them now, so he started looking inside my car through all my stuff and I didn't know how to say no, I don't want your help. He even went through my school bag which could be considered a purse because it's not that big and he'l like "oh, what's this, condoms?" and then he put his hands on my waist to feel if my keys were in my jersey pockets, and then on my hims for my jean pockets and then, he felt my pockets. This I feel was just rude and uncalled for. A week later, earlier today, he's like, so what do you think of equality? Are men and women equal? Like, i know in some cultures, you lick your boyfriends feet? wtf. I don't have a boyfriend. Yes, I'm brown and yes, some cultures are very ist, but that was just rude! I can't believe he said that! Am I legit? or am I just being silly?